Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Neighborhood Tragedy

I'm just trying to get my thoughts and reactions down, before they're gone....

Saturday lunchtime. The neighbor girls are playing out front with my grandkids, and some other neighborhood kids. The oldest girl is 14, but has Down's Syndrome, I'm guessing mental capacity of about a three or four year old. The younger girl, her niece, is 2 and a half. Three weeks younger than my own granddaughter.

At 1:30, we need to take my oldest grandson to a birthday party / sleepover at a friend's house. (15-yr-olds and XBox360s. Go figure.) I send the neighbor girls home. No, you can't go into my house. No, you aren't going in my car. I point them in the right direction, and give them a gentle push. We get my grandkids loaded into the car, and, as we leave the house, I see the older girl sitting on her front step, and the baby opening their front screen door.

We drop the oldest grandson off at his friend's place, and chat for a few minutes with the parents. Then we take the rest of the kids to Dairy Twist for an ice cream cone. About 2:30, as we are driving home, just a few blocks away, my wife points out the window. "Isn't that Monica? What's she doing up here, by herself?" The older neighbor girl is walking up the hill, away from her house. Since we aren't sure if she knows us well enough to get in the car with us, we drive the last few block to home, and see a police car in the neighbor's driveway.

We asked if they were looking for Monica. They said yes, so we told them where we had just seen her. Her brother took off right away, and the policeman foll wed a minute later. Then her sister asked if Katie, the two-year-old, her daughter, had been with her. She was missing, too.

My wife immediately headed across the street and through the playground, and up the hill, which was the most direct route to where we had seen Monica. If Katie had been with her, she might have been lagging behind, up the hill. Other neighbors came over, and started searching in other places. One said she had seen them in the park behind our houses, watching the planes from the Air Force Week Air Show going on just then. A couple of neighbors headed to check out the obvious routes back from the park, since they hadn't just used the gate to their own back yard.

Time passed. My wife and the brother were asking people out watching the Air Show if they had seen Katie. Nobody had. The police were trying to get whatever information they could from Monica. All she said was that Katie was at the pool. There is no public pool in the neighborhood. It had to be a private, backyard pool. People immediately started checking every yard for a pool.

About 3:15 a motorcycle cop went screaming down our street, siren blaring. A moment later, a police car followed. A few minutes later, we heard an ambulance siren in the distance. Then a neighbor's 16-yr-old daughter came running up the street as fast as she could. They had found Katie, face down in a pool, about 3 block away. Nobody was home. They were trying to resuscitate her now. They family jumped in a car and headed that way. A little later, we heard the ambulance leaving for the hospital.

Around 5:00 the grandfather, our neighbor, got home from the hospital, in tears. They hadn't been able to save her. She was gone.

3 comments:

  1. Thats very sad, I can't imagine how bad the girl parents are feeling, accidents happen but when you have small kids you should always keep an eye on them :(

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  2. While you are right, that you should always keep an eye on small kids, I am fully aware that it is a constant battle of wits, as kids try to find ways around their restrictions (as they learn, and grow), and parents trying to stay one step ahead of the kids. Sometimes, mistakes happen, although not usually so tragic.

    I should point out a few more things in the story.

    The mother works every day, so she normally left her daughter with "Grandma". Little Katie's aunt Monica, the mentally handicapped girl, was always a big help keeping Katie entertained. Monica has never been able to manipulate the gate latch on their privacy fence, let alone a lock. Grandma didn't mind letting the girls sit in the *fenced in and latched* backyard to watch the jets in the Air Show. (They fly right over our houses.)

    We'll probably never know if Monica or Katie was the one who managed to open the gate. All we are sure of is they wanted to get closer to the Air Show. As soon as Grandma realized they were gone, and out of sight, she called the cops.

    At this point, the police are not charging the parents/grandparents with anything. It was just a tragic accident, from that perspective.

    On the other hand, the people who own the pool are likely to be in BIG trouble. They had a standard 42" (106 cm) high chain link fence around their backyard, and no lock on the gate. City code requires a six foot (183 cm) fence, and a lock, around any private pool enclosure. Any ladders to the pool must be removed when not in use. Etc. To top it off, they had lost their own young grandson to drowning in the same pool just a couple weeks earlier!

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  3. oh no, that's terrible! it's especially sad that it was the second time that it happened. :(

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